Eliminating Stress
THE QUEEN
3/28/20235 min read
Introduction
Stress can be overwhelming and affect your health, relationships, work performance, and overall well-being. If you're feeling stressed out and looking for ways to reduce stress in your life, I have a few ideas that will help you get back on track:
Find your triggers.
Triggers are the specific events, circumstances, or people that make you feel stressed. They can be obvious or subtle.
A few common triggers are:
Overwhelming workloads
Being in constant conflict with a loved one or coworker
Not getting enough sleep (or sleeping too much)
Poor diet and exercise habits.
General life circumstances that can be overwhelming
A cluttered environment
Create a stress-free zone and learn how to use it.
Creating a stress-free zone can help you get things done, relax and unwind.
Create a space that is free from distractions. You can start with your bedroom or office. Make sure the room is well-lit and comfortable. You may also want to invest in a sound machine or something else that creates white noise so you can focus on your work without any disruptions.
Learn how to use your stress-free zone effectively. Once you have created this space, you must learn how best to use it as well—and do so consistently! Here are some tips:
Set aside at least 30 minutes each day when no one will bother you while working on something important (like an assignment).
Make sure that no one else uses this room during those hours either; otherwise, their presence could distract both of you!
And if possible, try turning off all electronics such as phones or computers, so there's nothing else drawing attention away from what needs to be done right now.
Create a go-to list of stress management resources for easy reference.
Creating a list of stress management resources can be helpful in the long run, especially if you're new to managing your stress. By creating a go-to list you'll be able to quickly refer back to it. You may want to include websites, books, and apps on your list. It's also important that this list is somewhere where it's easy for you to find when needed—whether it's on your phone or tablet or computer at work or home (or maybe even printed out). Be sure that any resources that are particularly useful for specific situations (like apps for when traveling) are accessible!
As time goes on and more tools become available, update this list to reflect those changes as well!
Make sleep a priority.
Sleep is an essential part of your daily routine, and it affects your physical and mental health. Get enough sleep to feel well-rested, refreshed, and alert. Sleep problems are common in people who have high levels of stress.
Here are some tips for getting better sleep:
Go to bed at a consistent time each night (the same time every night). This assists in establishing regular sleep patterns. If you have trouble falling asleep right away because you're awake longer than usual during the day, try going to bed earlier or exercising earlier in the evening so that your body has time to wind down before bedtime.
Avoid alcohol close to bedtime; it can interfere with falling asleep.
Avoid caffeine (coffee/tea) within six hours of trying to fall asleep.
Do not use electronic devices that emit blue light—like cell phones or laptops—close up against your face while trying to fall asleep.
Practice relaxation techniques such as deep breathing exercises when lying in bed before turning off lights.
Don't check electronic devices until after waking up.
Seek support from others when you need it and be willing to offer them support in return.
Seek support from others when you need it and be willing to offer support in return. Whether your spouse, a friend, or a colleague at work, asking for help can be difficult because we don't want to appear weak or needy. But in reality, seeking out others' assistance is an act of strength and self-care—not weakness.
Ask for help when you need it. It's important that we all know that there are times when we will need help from our friends and family members.
Learn how to say no.
One of the most important things you can do to reduce stress is learn to say no. This can be a bit daunting, especially if you're used to being accommodating and pleasing others. But there are plenty of ways to practice saying no in a kind way. Know that saying no doesn't make you a bad person or mean that you don't care about other people. It simply means that sometimes we have more going on than we can handle—and that's okay!
Exercise regularly, even if it's just taking a walk.
Exercise is one of the best ways to reduce stress. When you exercise, your body releases endorphins that make you feel good and help relieve pain. Exercise also increases blood flow and causes muscles to relax.
The good news is that it's never too late or too early for someone who has been inactive to start exercising! Even if all you do is take a walk around the neighborhood every day for 20 minutes after work, this can make a big difference in how stressed out and anxious you feel during the day. Remember: starting small is okay! Find what works best for your schedule before building up from there if needed.
Eat well and keep healthy snacks with you.
One of the best ways to reduce stress and keep it under control is eating well. Healthy foods like fruits and vegetables are full of vitamins and minerals that can help you maintain your energy levels. If you’re hungry but have no time to sit down for a meal, try snacking on nuts or dried fruit instead of reaching for junk food during stressful situations.
Use music to relax and get you into a better state of mind.
Music is a great way to relax and get you into a better state of mind. It can help you sleep better, focus on the task at hand.
Music for Relaxation: We recommend that you listen to calming music that evokes feelings of peace and tranquility. Music with a steady tempo can also be effective. It helps settle your heart rate and blood pressure and regulates breathing patterns. You may find it helpful to listen to music while relaxing in bed or lying down on the couch after work so that it helps calm your body down before bedtime or after running errands around town.
Music for Focus: If there are tasks that require intense concentration such as studying for an exam then classical music might be best suited since it tends not distract listeners but rather cryeate an environment conducive towards focusing on whatever task needs attention right now - so long as it doesn’t have lyrics which would interfere with reading text since they tend not distract listeners either but rather create an environment conducive towards focusing.
Breathe deeply, slowly and deliberately to relieve tension.
Breathe deeply, slowly and deliberately to relieve tension. Deep breathing has been proven to reduce stress levels and relax the mind by helping to regulate blood pressure and heart rate.
Try a breathing exercise like counting from 1-5 as you take in a full breath through your nose, holding it for 5 seconds, then exhaling slowly through pursed lips for 7 seconds before inhaling again. You can do this several times.
If you have trouble sleeping because of stress or anxiety, try practicing some deep breathing exercises before bedtime—the rhythmic nature of these activities will help ease your mind into sleep mode instead of keeping it awake all night with worry!
Conclusion
If you’re feeling stressed out, try one of these strategies to help yourself get back into a relaxed state. The goal is to give yourself more control over your stress levels and allow you to feel better by taking action rather than just sitting on the sidelines waiting for things to change.

